Rules for Kink in the Wild
At Kink in the Wild, we want to encourage an open and inviting atmosphere for everyone. To help ensure this, we have a set of rules we require all Attendees to follow. Please note that any violation of the rules below will result in consequences such as, but not limited to:
- a formal verbal and/or written warning
- suspension from subsequent event(s)
- being banned from all future event(s)
- and/or immediate ejection
- removal from the event and premises.
No refunds will be given to any persons removed from the event under these circumstances.
- All attendees must be at least 19 years of age at the time of the event.
- Respect
- Respect all individuals at Kink in the Wild.
- No touching (smacking, hugging, tickling or anything else that makes contact with another person) without their consent first. If someone asks you to leave them alone, respect that. Just because one person is having physical contact with an individual does not imply permission for all to have physical contact. Ask first.
- Be respectful when speaking to and about others. Be mindful of your words and pronouns. If you cannot say something nice, say nothing at all.
- Please limit controversial topics (example: wars, political discussions, etc.) to other areas such as private tents, trails, etc.
- Respect the property of those around you.
- Don’t use toys that don’t belong to you; don’t eat food that isn’t yours. If you’d like to use something, ask.
- If you damage someone’s property, you are responsible for making amends.
- Respect the venue.
- Clean up after yourself. Pick up your trash and empties.
- Dispose of cigarettes properly. Do not throw them on the ground.
- If you damage the venue or see damages to the venue, you must immediately alert an organizer. The person who damaged the property is
responsible for the repairs.
- Privacy
- All information regarding events, scenes, participants, or conversations are to be held in strict confidence. Breaching
event confidentiality may result in consequences, up to and including legal action. - Kink in the Wild is a private event. Please use discretion. When leaving the property during Kink in the Wild you will respect the surrounding community and neighbours, and not bring attention to Kink in the Wild.
- Photography
- Personal Photos: Do not take pictures, videos, or audio recordings without receiving consent first. Not sure? Ask!
- Kink in the Wild Photographers: Marked photographers will be taking photos throughout the event. Their photos will be turned into the board and edited as per photo permissions of each attendee.
- If you do not feel comfortable at any time with being recorded or of any recorded content of yourself you reserve the right to tell someone to stop or delete the content. The person recording is required to respect all such requests.
- Substance Use
- Alcohol
- Alcohol should be consumed responsibly. Drunk, disorderly, or belligerent behaviour is frowned upon, and may result in being asked to depart the event.
- Please dispose of empties properly.
- Smoking/Vaping
- Smoking and vaping of any kind is permitted only in the designated smoking area or in the confines of your own tent or trailer. All butts and empty cartridges must be disposed of appropriately.
- Cannabis
- Smoking cannabis follows the same rules as for smoking nicotine
- Overindulgence is discouraged and inappropriate behaviour may lead to consequences.
- The use of any other substance or nonprescription drug is prohibited on Fox Haven property.
- Nudity
- Nudity is welcome on the Fox Haven property, except for in cooking and eating areas. If you choose to remove your clothing, please keep a towel with you to place before sitting on any common surfaces.
- Cabins
- No outdoor shoes shall be worn in the cabins.
- From 10:00am to 10:00pm, the living room areas are available to the public for activities.
- If you are hanging out in the bedrooms, please respect those that paid for it, and if they ask you to leave (within reason), please do so. If it’s late, you might be asked to leave.
- PLEASE pick up after yourself.
- Kink Cleanliness and Disposal of Single Use Gear
- Used Condoms / Gloves
- Please dispose of any gloves and other single use rubbers / plastics etc. In provided garbage bins, or garbage disposal areas.
- Sharps and used needles (Medical Purposes)
- In the main cabin located on the fridge is a sharps bin, this bin is to be used for needles or other sharp’s that may be used for medical purposes.
- All other sharps outside of medically provided sharps from a medical professional are not to be used at KITW.
- Toys, Gear and Other Kink Hardware
- If using other people's gear, IE (Plugs, Chastity cages, e-stim etc) Be sure to thoroughly clean all products before and after use. If you have any questions regarding proper sanitary etiquette please ask a staff member at KITW or the gear owner for cleanup instructions.
- KITW will provide sanitary wipes / antibacterial spray with paper towels to clean up any stationary gear (IE: Benches, Tables, Paddles, Clips, Clamps etc.)
- Messy / wet diapers are permitted with the following limitations to respect other attendees:
- Messing or being messy is only permitted in the presence of others that have consented to it.
- Changes must be done either in the changing tent, your own tent or camper, bathroom, or away from other groups of attendees.
- Indoor spaces and cooking areas are strictly off-limits while messy.
- You must dispose of the soiled diaper in an outdoor disposal area immediately after a change.
- For those with medical conditions, we understand that you will try your best to follow the above rules. We understand that you will do your best to keep a clean and enjoyable environment for all at Kink in the Wild by discreetly taking care of your situation
- Kitchen and Food Preparation
- The kitchen is open to all except when communal meals are being prepared. Priority is to be given to communal meal preparation. Refer to the schedule or an organizer for more details.
- The fridge is for communal meal food only. All food must be stored either indoors or in vehicles. There are bears in the area so please be mindful of food storage and disposal.
- If you use the kitchen, please clean up after yourself immediately, including dishes.
- All attendees are expected to help with the preparation and/or cleaning up of at least one meal. A sign-up will be done close to the event.
- Be sure to check the list of what can be burned, recycled, or composted.
- COVID-19 Protocols
- Kink in the Wild will be following the current rules and regulations for West Nipissing, Ontario, Canada at the time of the event.
- Any attendee becoming ill, may be asked to move to a private tenting area (provided by Kink in the Wild), to avoid the spread of any virus.
- BDSM Rules
- Safety comes first. You must ALWAYS ask consent, ensure proper aftercare is given, defer to the leadership of KITW, and seek proper medical care. No drinking or drugs while engaging in BDSM.
- You may partake in BDSM play in the adult pavilion and in designated outdoor areas. The outdoor areas will be marked.
- The following are prohibited unless you make arrangements with the leadership of KITW.
- Needle play
- Fire play
- Edge play
- Waterboarding
- Breath control
- Knife play
- Cutting
- Branding
- Scarification
- Electroplay
- Mummification that creates facial restrictions or breathing limitations
- Piercing
- Suspension
- Bloodplay
- Etc.
- If you are unsure of an activity, please ask one of the board members of KITW.
- If there is blood at any time, the scene must stop and the area must be properly cleaned.
Supervision
- During play, please use the buddy system. Ask a friend to watch your scene and grab additional help if needed.
- If you think your scene would benefit from a dungeon monitor, please speak with leadership to see what can be arranged
- If you are wanting to go off into the woods to engage in play, please notify someone and bring one of the provided whistles to use in case you need help.
- The first aid kit will be clearly marked in the adult pavilion, as well as a walkie talkie in case it’s needed.